I stand with you

This piece isn’t up for discussion. It’s my personal feelings and just straight f*cking facts. That’s all.

I’ve seen a lot of controversy over rape culture and I don’t believe “rape culture” should even be categorized as anything. Rape culture shouldn’t even exist, period. But tragically, it does.

There are so many attributes I can elaborate on in this piece, and lately here is rape culture being a bigger thing than ever, having it blow up than it has before now that celebrities are coming forward with rape culture in Hollywood.

This issue has been going on since the beginning of time and it is serious. All victims, and their situations are just as important as others. Regardless of whoever you are, whatever you are, whoever you do, whatever you do, and whoever you wear and whatever you wear. No one deserves to be a victim.

In my opinion, it should be educated. But, we shouldn’t have to teach others to know that act of rape culture and no consent isn’t right. What about this and this act makes it right?

When, No means a straight f*cking no. Being pushed away means get the f*ck off. Or when a elder comes on to a minor. What makes that right or give you the right to go ahead with this act?

In this case. Silence, which is highly taken advantage Is also a NO. It also a sign of fear.

Let’s not forget those who have taken action and came forward to a higher power, who we rely on for safety and support, and they don’t care enough to give it to us. I mean who else or what else has to be endure in this world to see that serious issues just like this need to change and action needs to be taken.

I have been a victim before. This is the first time I’ve publicly said that out loud, and I don’t give a f*ck because, I know others have been and I believe many people I know have had too. The violation of the comfort and security of my own body, my privacy. Feeling powerless, pushed, pressured and obligated to do something I don’t want to.  Of course that has shaped me in ways I couldn’t explain. I can’t even begin to explain the horrid impact this has on a person.

Not only that but let’s talk about sexism here, why does a women’s confidence with their bodies and themselves or anything in regards to women and their sexuality classify as “slutty” or “their fault” in rape culture or just in general?

Never less, why do women knowing this issue is not one to play around with victimize and accuse men as sexual predators? Putting innocent people in these serious situations. Another reason for others to be more afraid to come forward or for authorities to put this problem aside as if it is nothing.

I have a platform, and I have no problem taking that advantage. I am speaking on behalf of girls, boys, men, and women around the world who don’t have the power, voice or are too afraid to come forward. For Women in countries where rape culture happens everyday. Whose rights, of their lives, souls, body, and voices aren’t ever heard. We all have rights

You’ve all been heard. You aren’t alone and you’re loved. 



To Infinity and Beyond

Something beautiful is aligning in the stars, and it is also Scorpio SZN! 

Between October 20th – 22th the sky set to peak has Orionids Meteor Shower began. I don’t know for sure whether or not I had witnessed it, but I got home after a late night and just sat outside looking up with bright shining stars scattered literally…. every where, and let my tell you it was a way different night sky than usual.

November 3rd, 2017, The Super Moon occurred.  It happens when the full moon of any month orbits closest to Earth which is called “Perigee“. So if you find yourself thinking the full moon appears a bit bigger and brighter, that is why.

The Super Moon last year On November 14th, 2016, was the closest to earth since January 1948. The next Super Moon is set to fall on December 3rd, 2017. Which will appear to be up to 14% bigger and 30% brighter than normal.

It is said in this article by website, Time and Date. The next time we will see a Super Moon closer than last year’s Super Moon is November 25, 2034. (17 more years to go!)

I am very keen into Astronomy, and a huge Astrologer. But whether you believe in astrology and in the stars or not, you cannot deny the beautiful science the universe has to show/offer to us. If you’re interested, mark the next Super Moon in your calendar, and click here to find out what scorpio season means for your sign. (I found this strangely accurate for mine. lol)


Wake me up when September ends

Alright, summers over.

The seasons have changed and fall awakens. The first month of fall has come to an end and OCTOBER begins. I had MAJOR writers block and had started this post since the beginning of September – Hopefully that’s over

The pass 2 months has been very hectic as I’m sure it’s the same for all of you. Getting settled into the new upcoming year with new changes, challenges, and ventures. I went through a lot involving myself and my work, and I do not regret my decision one bit. In life everything is unpredictable, but it’s all about balance. Being able to take what life throws at you and go with it with nothing but positive energy that goes within ur comfort zone.

I work within the child care field but, my writings and my blog are also my work. I believe in going in the path that you want for yourself and makes you happy. Do what you’re passionate about, don’t go to school for something you’re unsure about or work a job that doesn’t satisfy you. Do what makes you happy, life has so much to offer and there is so much you can do with it .. I’m talking about all things in general – Fall awakens all that.



South Asia Flooding

Hurricane Harvey has caught so much attention and love. We are also forgetting that South Asia are also experiencing the worst flooding in decades, which have killed over thousands of people and displaced millions. An estimate of over 2 million people have been affected. The same concerns I have for Houston goes the same for South Asia, if not more.

I am sadden to see there aren’t many organizations/charities to help those in South Asia.

Here is an organization I personally found more reliable than others. If you can find more please feel free to contact me and I will add them in. 

Save the Children – South Asia Flood


Hurricane Harvey

During the weekend and this upcoming week, Texas was hit with Hurricane Harvey. Many left with no electricity, and billions of dollars worth of damages were sustained. Many families, and animals have lost their homes, and are struggling to evacuate. The strong winds and heavy rains from the hurricane have also impacted the Caribbean and Latin America.

I would advise not to donate to the American Red Cross.

Here’s why – Why we need new Humanitarian relief

Other organizations/charities you can donate too.

Save the Children

Houston Coalition for the Homeless

Houston Food Bank

You Caring

Best charities for Hurricane Harvey

There are a lot of things going on and happening in the world where we can lend a helping hand in various ways, no matter how big or small.  Please help spread awareness and help others who need it the most in this world.




Mayweather VS Mcgregor

Mayweather VS Mcgregor — Saturday, August 26th 2017 on PPV: What makes one a great fighter?

I wanted to talk about the fight, and also bring some light into what makes a someone a great fighter/athlete. I feel like a lot of people miss the fact that this whole fight is legendary, F*ck the money and the negative press. It’s about all the preparation, the work, drive, and dedication for this fight to happen. The risks, and challenges that have been made by both athletes and their team.

I am not a professional, but I am pretty knowledgeable about MMA, I do follow the sport more frequently than other sports. I took the time to do my research on both, sports, and athletes. Read up and watched on interviews, and press conferences. I asked you guys, my readers, your opinion on this fight and have also discussed more things way beyond this particular fight to help me reflect and generate a good piece for this topic (thank you all for your input) — but more along the lines of all the important attributes that make one a great fighter/athlete.

“The Notorious” Conor Mcgregor. 
29 years old.
From Dublin, Ireland
Reigning UFC Lightweight Champion, and former UFC Featherweight Champion.
Floyd “Money” Mayweather JR. 
40 years old.
From Grand Rapids, Michigan, United States.
12 time World Champion, 5 different weight classes
Maybe Conor should’ve stayed in his lane, stay fighting in his savage game and nothing more beyond that. You can’t deny his hard ambition, neither does Mayweather. Look where he’s guiding Mcgregor, to him. He’s challenging someone who hasn’t actually had much experience with Mayweather’s choice of combat sport, where he clearly specializes in. Conor is here training hard and pursuing this craft in order for this fight to happen for not only everyone who initiated this fight but for himself and his build up for greatness. They brought in two beautiful combat sports and two fighters who clearly have the same desire with different creativity and strategies that make themselves great. These two are very talented and legendary fighters. Mayweather has been through the pressure before, Just like Conor, and any other fighter. But, for 21 years? Here he is, past his time, still trying to conquer, and give it all he has for himself, his team, the fans, and most importantly, Mcgregor.  I don’t doubt Floyd, he’s great at what he does, I feel like we all know what Floyd is capable of. But with Conor, doubt never crosses my mind with him, or with this fight. He is a different level, and I feel like a lot of you don’t even know what Conor is capable of. Then again, at the end of the day, we’ll see on Saturday, August 26th. You will really see how all their training, and hard work shaped them into the great fighters that they are, and how It’ll play out for the both of them in the boxing ring.
Good luck to the two extraordinary fighters. I encourage everyone to order and watch the fight. Saturday night is going to be historical.

I am Team Mcgregor all the way. Win or lose.

“I’ve fought many fighters with different styles. There have been plenty of guys who talked a lot of trash, but when its all said and done, I came out victorious”

– Floyd Mayweather

“And when it’s all said and done, you know what? I’m gonna feel a little bit sad. Because you should have all kept your mouths shut. You should have left me over on that other game where I’m from, that more ruthless game where we bounce heads off the canvas and drill them into the floor. You should have left me where I was. Because this man is not on my level. He’s not even a quarter of the man I am. So, we’re gonna see, you’re all going to eat your words. ”

– Conor Mcgregor

Photo by Ethan Miller/Getty Images

Solar Eclipse 2017

Are you ready for darkness during daylight? 

The Solar Eclipse occurs when the Moon passes between the Sun and the Earth, Fully or partially blocking the Sun temporarily.

This years Eclipse is so special with the fact that all of North America will be experiencing the solar eclipse since the last time it happened in 1979.

In Vancouver those will see about 90% of the moon blocking the sun, with starting time approx around 9am with the ending time of 11am . From Toronto, to Winnipeg, to Edmonton, we will see about 70-75% as the eclipse moves mores towards the East. Toronto with the starting time around 1pm and the ending time around 3pm.

View the 2017 Solar Eclipse Beginning,Mid,End times for your City.

View the 2017 Solar Eclipse live stream here from the eyes of NASA.

Caution: If you are not live streaming and are going to watch the eclipse – Please do not watch the Solar Eclipse without proper eyewear/protection. 


Photo from https://www.space.com/35080-total-solar-eclipse-2017-path-maps.html